Many parents carry a quiet, persistent question in their hearts: Is our home truly a place where my child feels emotionally safe, respected, and deeply connected? Even loving, intentional caregivers can feel unsure at times. Parenting often brings moments of doubt, overwhelm, and the desire to “do better” without always knowing what that looks like […]
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Understanding Anger in Children and Ourselves: Modeling Calm and Healthy Responses
Anger is a natural and universal emotion. It shows up in all of us, adults and children alike. While anger itself is not harmful, how we respond to it can make a big difference in our relationships, our mental health, and the way children learn to handle their own emotions. Why Understanding Anger Matters Children […]
5 Tips to Make Preschool and Kindergarten Drop-Off Easier
Starting preschool or kindergarten is a big milestone—for both your child and you. While this transition can be exciting, it often comes with tears, clinginess, and a massive dose of parent guilt. If mornings feel stressful, you’re not alone! Separation anxiety is common at this age, and the good news is that there are gentle […]
What to Do When Your Child Hits
(Excerpt from the upcoming mini book by The Gentle Parenting Institute) One of the hardest moments in parenting is when your child hits. Whether it’s you, a sibling, or another child, the instinct to react quickly—and often emotionally—is strong. The toughest part is remembering not to take it personally. Behavior is communication. When we take […]
Reinforcement vs. Punishment: Defined
Learn the definitions of reinforcement and punishment.
Instead of “Say you’re sorry”
Forcing a child to say sorry is not a good way to encourage authenticity.
Who benefits from ‘time-out?’
You. You (the parent/caregiver) benefit from sending a child to time out. You’re the only one who does. Let’s face it, it gives you a reprieve from whatever ‘bad’ behavior they were engaging in… a chance to clean up the huge mess made with the toilet paper and shaving cream. But don’t think it’s actually […]
Adultism: The Missing Link
What is adultism?
3 Ways to Help Stop the Whining
Help your toddler stop whining in 3 easy steps.